July 29, 2012
(l. They have created an hypnotic fantasy: romance and hook- ups.)
If I could do it over, I would not let primitive
reproductive instincts dominate my life.
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
As I get older, I notice that my attitude to women and sex is becoming more “Biblical” — not due to the Bible, but to experience.
For a man, I think women and sex are usually a major diversion and impediment to realizing his goal, ultimately serving God, the principle of his self-development.
If not for sex, would men and women even associate?
Some men have Platonic friendships with women but is this common?
Male-female relationships are rooted in sexual attraction. We are hardwired to procreate; it’s our most powerful biological instinct. Men want almost every fertile female they see; females want babies.
Our Illuminati masters have tweaked this powerful instinct for purposes of social control, turning sex from procreation to recreation. They have created a hypnotic fantasy – romance and hook-ups.
Men and woman now want this fantasy but not children. (Yet, in reality, “sex appeal” is based on reproductive factors.)
Coitus has been given a mystical importance, and deemed therapeutic as well. Sex now completely dominates our lives, and sells almost any product. We have been pinned like insects, narrowly defined and degraded.
The culture is obsessed with sex, like the Illuminati-Jews who shape it. But this is another hoax. As Andy Warhol said, “Sex is the biggest nothing in the world.”
DO-OVER
If I were 21 again and single, I would not let primitive reproductive instincts dominate my life. Frankly, I would use masturbation to neutralize sexual desire and the power women had over me.
I would remove sexual attraction from my relations with women. It crowds out everything else. I pursued women that otherwise I wouldn’t give the time of day.
Conversely, in my do-over, I would try to connect with women on a profounder level.
Confining sex to courtship and marriage used to do this. If a man and woman wanted to sleep together, they would have to be together first.
Monogamy takes the sex out of m/f relationships because men and women have to be faithful.
SOUL MATES?
The Bible portrays women as helpmates, not soul mates.
How many people have found their soul mate? Is it realistic? God is our soul mate. Turning a person into a soul mate often is infatuation and idolatry.
Can anyone follow your personal spiritual trajectory? Isn’t it egotistical to expect this?
I do not accept the Illuminati shibboleths that a man needs (to satisfy) a woman to become a man. Becoming a man has nothing to do with sex. Masculinity involves power and moral courage (being effective, achieving goals,) not sex.
My attitude to women has become more “Biblical” and in a “do-over,” I would downgrade sex in my attitude to women. I suspect my relationships would have improved immensely. I suspect that removing sex is the first step to reclaiming all m/f relationships.
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Comments for “Can We Remove Sex from M/F Relationships? “
Tony Blizzard said (July 29, 2012):
Marriage is put off way, way, waaaaaaay past puberty these days. True, modern teenagers are not ready for marriage. Why is that? They used to be. People used to be well educated by the eighth grade. Girls knew how to run a home by age 12 at least. Boys knew how to run a farm or whatever at the same ages. They married and began their own families and family responsibilities usually while still teenagers. Thus the fire of sex was quenched naturally and to proper purpose with much more successful families than exist today plus a more loving, lasting bond between young husband and wife.
But today we have “professional” education keeping the young mentally and emotionally children into their planned forever. It is practically considered a sin for young people to marry before they have “seen the world.” How damned stupid. All that does is bring garbage into a marriage when it finally does occur.
Much better to have kids grow up in the home, not a damned government school, where they will more often learn the proper necessities for survival and right living. My sons and their families are often asked if they home school their kids (all my grandkids are home schooled and my great grandkids will be too). When such strangers are asked why they conclude that, invariably they reply it is because the kids are so well behaved, as grown ups would be.
It is insane to crudely waste the youthful exuberance and rapid learning abilities of children in government school agendas of playtime planned ignorance. Even in this purposely collapsed economy, for the most part, my home schooled grand kids have had no problem securing good jobs, quickly moving into higher responsibility, high pay, positions at very early ages because they have honest “personal esteem’ and abilities resulting from honest accomplishment, not the play acting of government schools, which qualities business owners and management can not help noticing, “sheep skins” notwithstanding. It is true that in the past year or so it has become harder to get a start for those just leaving the nest, not only because of massive offshoring, but also because people who normally would have retired, thus creating openings, are hanging onto their jobs for dear life.
N said (July 29, 2012):
Good stuff Henry keep it coming. You can’t get advice like this anywhere else.
There are so many attractive women to chose from here. Its nuts. Lots of nice summer clothes. I agree with “being attracted to just about every fertile female”. I have 3 or 4 that I am after.
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Thanks N
Just remember, you chase them until they catch you. Make sure it’s the right one!
Al Thompson said (July 29, 2012):
The problem is fornication. If I had it all over to do again, I would keep my virginity until I was lawfully married. Fornication is extremely destructive and it ruins those who do it. Looking back on my life, I would have much preferred to bypass sex until marriage. Fornication destroys the relationship between a man and a woman. Sex isn’t primitive, it is what it is in its proper context.
I remember reading an early Christian writing where the author said that it was much better for young people to marry early so that they don’t burn with passion. The way everything is done now, young people are expected to sit in college, wait to graduate, and then get married before having sex?
That isn’t going to happen. It doesn’t work that way. If young people got married earlier in their lives, they could then concentrate on making a living instead of sitting in useless classes–learning nothing.
http://verydumbgovernment.blogspot.com/2012/05/fornication-is-destruction-of-soul.html
H said (July 29, 2012):
That’s what I ‘ve been doing since my teenage years. I have always instinctively known that masturbation is a way to relieve stress without the spiritual corruption of joining the “running after women” subculture ( extremely powerful and all-pervasive here in Brazil ) and all of its associated ideologies ( feminism, PC, strive to be cool and socially accepted etc ).
If fundamentalist Christians have a problem with that and see it as another form of corruption, well, that’s their problem. I also never wanted ( or needed ) to be accepted by them.
David said (July 29, 2012):
There are many fine points you make in your post, but masturbation is a grave moral disorder and contrary to the will of God, it is intrinsically evil.
See St. Thomas Aquinas and other Thomistic philosophers for clarification on this point; essentially it is against natural law.
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Thanks David,
I am talking about a single man here.
h
Henry Makow is the author of A Long Way to go for a Date. He received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto. He welcomes your feedback and ideas at
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